First things first...

 

I'm Finnish, so... small talk isn't my strongest asset. But I'll work on that. 

 

You’ll handle all spiders.
Especially the long-legged shower ninjas. I’ve already done the whole ‘run out naked to find a weapon’ thing. Never again.

 

You lead.
You move through the crowd like you know where you’re going.
And you don’t mind me holding your hand… just to make sure I don’t lose you.

 

The first kiss happens in private.
The next ones… we’ll see.

 

I dare you to try new things with me.
The kind that makes your heart race a little… and maybe blur the line between ‘this is a good idea’ and ‘this is a very good idea’.

 

…okay, that escalated in my head. Anyway...

 

Teach me something small (or big) once in a while. It can be anything from a random detail about a historical event to something about your hometown. I genuinely love learning new things.

 

And if you’re fixing something, I’ll hold the torch for you.

 

And if you’re into sports, I’ll try not to remind you that ice hockey is the best sport in the world.

 

I can be a bit chaotic sometimes when I’m too tired. But I’ll work on that too.

 

I’m an adult. I’m doing the inner work… slowly unlearning my own patterns.

 

Oh, you wanna know what I bring to the table?

 

Peace. A place where you can rest, relax and recharge. A home you actually want to come back to.

 

I’ll be waiting with open arms, ready to kiss all those stressful moments away. You can rest your head on my chest (or butt) and take a nap if you like.

 

Or we can go to the kitchen and… you know what? I'll finish that sentence when we're alone.

 

So yeah, if you’ve read this far, congratulations.

 

The next step?
Send me a message on Instagram or walk over and say hi.

 

Make your first line count.

 

And if you’re not my person, you can still support the husband-finding process by buying me a coffee. It’s hard work, you know.

 

Have a great day,
Tiia